Holiday Guide: How to Effectively Deal with Stress

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Does the holiday season fill you with joy, or do you find stress creeping in amid the celebrations? For many, this time of year is painted as one of warmth and connection. However, if we aren't careful, stress can derail us and impact our emotions during this joyful time. Fortunately, you can effectively deal with holiday stress by following the guide shared in this blog.


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The holiday season can trigger a range of emotions. If you find the holidays to be a stressful time that affects your emotional well-being, you're not alone. Many people face similar challenges during this busy season. I encourage you to follow this guide to create a plan that increases joy and happiness for you and your family.

Managing emotions is critical to our quality of life, but doing so effectively throughout the holidays can be tricky. It requires us to be more tolerant of ourselves and others. Practicing patience and not sweating the small stuff are great ways to reduce stress. It takes time and effort to learn how to read our emotions and understand their impact on our decision-making and our ability to empathize with others. Managing these emotions requires significant skill, but it is attainable.

How to Give the Best of Yourself Over the Holidays

Finding joy and minimizing stress during the holidays is possible. The key is to maintain a positive outlook. Focusing on the good in your life helps retain a positive attitude and perspective. A few years ago, I wrote a blog post sharing strategies for being proactive about increasing joy and reducing stress during the holidays. You can read more about it in The Gift of Your Best Self: The Gift of Your Best Self: Unwrapping Your Full Potential This Season.

Laughter Reduces Stress and Increases Joy

Laughter is essential for reducing stress and enhancing positive emotions like joy and happiness this holiday season. Several years ago, I wrote a blog about laughter's vital role in improving mental health and reducing negative emotions. Laughter is a universal language that connects us and benefits our entire well-being. To learn more, check out my blog, Laughter is The Best Medicine to Boost The Holiday Season.

Holiday Guide: 12 Simple Tips to Effectively Deal with Stress

To reduce holiday stress, consider these strategies:

  1. Manage your emotions instead of letting them manage you.
  2. Maintain a positive outlook with a "glass half-full" attitude.
  3. Create opportunities to laugh and smile.
  4. Don’t overdo it; pace yourself with a "less is more" mindset.
  5. Plan to drop by holiday gatherings for a couple of hours instead of staying for the evening.
  6. Reduce your time with extended family to make space for your immediate family and yourself.
  7. If you found last year stressful, change things by developing new traditions.
  8. Limit the amount you eat, drink, and spend over the holidays to create balance.
  9. Recognize when there’s too much togetherness.
  10. Recognize when there’s not enough togetherness.
  11. Practice mindfulness and remember to breathe.
  12. Give more cards with personal notes and fewer gifts.

This year, consider the guide above for ways to eliminate stress and negative emotions, allowing you to enjoy precious moments with family and friends. Create joyful memories filled with laughter that will enrich your holidays. If you’re looking for further insights into emotional management, check out my second book, The Power of Emotion, A Practical Guide to Making The Most Of Your Emotional Intelligence. Be sure to check out many more motivational blogs here.


This article was originally published on December 18, 2021, and has been updated (November 2024).

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